MOMent Shifts

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MOMent Shifts

Welcome to the

official blog page of

Valencia Newsome Posey

These aren’t just blogs. They’re wake-up calls for the woman who's been showing up for everyone but herself.

MOMent Shifts is where you come when you’re tired of carrying it all and calling it normal. It’s the space where your unraveling isn’t judged, it’s honored. From mirror moments to mindset resets (the real kind, not the fluffy kind), this is where you shift how you see yourself… so you can show up like you were always meant to.

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Who Were You Before Life Made You Forget Your True Self?

January 29, 20251 min read
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Who Were You Before Life Made You Forget Your True Self?

When was the last time you felt like YOU?

Not the mom, the wife, or the dependable employee, but the woman who used to laugh freely, dream boldly, and love life unapologetically?

If you feel like you’ve lost her, let me tell you something important: she’s not gone. She’s still there, waiting for you to remember her.

In this blog, we’re going to uncover ways to reconnect with your true self, the vibrant, authentic woman you were always meant to be.

Explore your journey of self-discovery and reconnect with the woman you’ve always been. This category is for moms ready to uncover their true selves and create a life of joy, balance, and fulfillment.

Rediscovering your true self is about peeling back the layers that life has placed on you. It’s a process of reflection, action, and self-love.

Reflect on the Joyful Moments
Think back to the times when you felt truly alive. Was it dancing in your living room? Creating art? Traveling? Those moments are clues to who you are at your core.

Let Go of Expectations
The world may have told you who to be, but you don’t have to listen anymore. What do YOU want? Write it down. Say it out loud. Own it.

Start Small
Pick one thing from your past that made you happy and bring it back into your life. Maybe it’s a hobby, a routine, or even a playlist that makes you smile.

Reaffirm Who You Are
Every day, remind yourself that you are worthy, capable, and deserving of joy. Write affirmations, stick them on your mirror, and say them out loud.

The real you is still there, waiting to be rediscovered. By reflecting on your past, letting go of expectations, and embracing what brings you joy, you can reconnect with your authentic self.

This journey is about more than remembering who you were, it’s about stepping into who you’re meant to be.

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Valencia Newsome Posey

Valencia Posey is the founder and CEO of Unstoppable Mom, dedicated to helping women reclaim their time, energy, and joy while balancing personal growth and professional success. With a passion for empowering women to overcome burnout, Valencia shares actionable strategies for thriving in work-life balance, self-care, and living a life full of purpose. Her mission is to support women in realizing their worth and living fully, both at home and in their careers.

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