MOMent Shifts

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Valencia Newsome Posey

MOMent Shifts

Welcome to the

official blog page of

Valencia Newsome Posey

These aren’t just blogs. They’re wake-up calls for the woman who's been showing up for everyone but herself.

MOMent Shifts is where you come when you’re tired of carrying it all and calling it normal. It’s the space where your unraveling isn’t judged, it’s honored. From mirror moments to mindset resets (the real kind, not the fluffy kind), this is where you shift how you see yourself… so you can show up like you were always meant to.

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Take Up Space: How to Build Confidence, Joy, and a Better Life

January 08, 20252 min read
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Take Up Space: How to Build Confidence, Joy, and a Better Life

“I’m fine.”

How often do you say those words when you’re anything but fine?

As women, we’ve been taught to shrink ourselves, to keep the peace, and to make everyone else comfortable. But here’s the thing: you were never meant to live small.

You deserve to take up space not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. In this blog, I’ll show you how to build your confidence, rediscover your joy, and create a life where you don’t just exist, you thrive.

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Taking up space starts with realizing you’re worthy of being seen, heard, and celebrated just as you are.

Step 1: Embrace Your Quirks
That laugh-snort? That obsession with reality TV? Those wild dreams you think are too much? They’re what make you YOU. Stop hiding them. Celebrate them instead.

Step 2: Speak Your Truth
Confidence begins with letting your voice be heard. Start small, share your opinion at work, say no to something that drains you, or simply ask for what you need at home.

Step 3: Reconnect with Joy
Think about what lights you up. Is it dancing, painting, or writing? Do more of that. Joy is contagious, and the more you embrace it, the more confident you’ll feel.

Step 4: Take One Bold Action
Whether it’s wearing the outfit you’ve been saving, signing up for that class you’ve been eyeing, or having a tough conversation, one bold step can remind you of your power.

By taking up space, you’re not just transforming your life; you’re inspiring others to do the same.

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Life is too short to stay small. Taking up space isn’t about being loud or demanding it’s about living authentically and unapologetically.

When you embrace who you are, you make room for confidence, joy, and a better life to follow. So, stop shrinking. Step into the fullness of YOU.

Join the Unstoppable Mom Community today and start your journey toward confidence and joy.

PS: Don’t miss our free Rediscover You Challenge starting January 20th. Sign up today!

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Valencia Newsome Posey

Valencia Posey is the founder and CEO of Unstoppable Mom, dedicated to helping women reclaim their time, energy, and joy while balancing personal growth and professional success. With a passion for empowering women to overcome burnout, Valencia shares actionable strategies for thriving in work-life balance, self-care, and living a life full of purpose. Her mission is to support women in realizing their worth and living fully, both at home and in their careers.

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